THE CHI KUNG BIBLE:  MASTERING PERSONAL POWER by Gary J. Clyman

CHAPTER #5 - CONCERNING EMOTIONS

MY VISION AND PURPOSE

"Masters are meant to free students, NOT imprison them."  GJC

FREEDOM VS. BONDAGE

Many, I might even say "most" other spiritual systems lead the follower 
further in, on the path.  The Clyman System however has very specific 
directions; to set yourself free.  Following this path, leads you to your 
own "true path," not mine.  When you practice Chi Kung, you will do exact- 
ly what you are suppose to do, "the right thing."  My system concentrates 
primarily on "Strengthening your WILL." 

An important saying is, "It's the mind, not the mind."  Many people 
have the misunderstanding that all things in Chi Kung are done "in the 
mind," this is wrong.  Many things are done "with the mind."  This one 
word change is said to represent the "one inch off that leads to a mistake 
of 1,000 miles."  Don't make this mistake.

HANDS ON, TRANSFER OF POWER

Now my work has become very strange.  I have developed the ability and 
spiritual strength to walk in multiple worlds, at the same time.  As of 
late, I can be in the spirit world which involves communicating directly 
with people who no longer live physically on this plane, as well as being 
able to retrace with my friends and clients at the time and age that their 
original incidents took place.  

I can now recall their wounded spirits, speak directly with them, and bring 
about the necessary healing whether it may involve forgiveness, resolving 
problems is relationships, or any other necessary resolution or closure 
that may be needed. 

I just realized what I have been doing, and why I have not been practicing 
Tai Chi as in the past.  My Tai Chi has given me the skills and strength 
to communicate with other spirits and entities that no longer are living 
on this plane.  My Tai Chi has contributed to my constitution and given me 
the spiritual strength to perform this needed work without any side 
effects related to living in this world and any other I may need to visit.  

My Tai Chi is and remains the secret to my success in my intuitional 
skills.  I have hit my writers block and am now stepping through it.  
It is very scary, but I know my work is important to mankind as well as 
my own personal, spiritual growth. 

My father, Dr. Clyde Clyman, who died in 1968, is alive in my spirit and 
is pulling my strings in that I always seem to know what my friends and  
clients need to do. 

My "Hands on, Transfer of Power" is this work in action in this present, 
living world.  Wilhelm Reich made his important contribution to the world 
and now my time has come.  To heal the wounded souls of the present by 
re-writing the original incidents of my friends and clients over again.  

Yes, these new understandings are incredible and very freaky as well as 
scary to me, but the next stage of my work must go on. 

My work has now gone beyond the restraints and limits of time and space.  
I have thought and wondered about this ability for over 10 years, but 
never knew what to do to move in this direction.  I have now developed 
these skills and abilities without trying. 

The major work ahead of me is to develop my concepts that can be readily 
communicated, accepted, understood and utilized by main stream humanity  
in this world of the 1990's. 

REACTIONS DURING "HANDS ON, TRANSFER OF POWER"

While the "Hands on, Transfer of Power" is taking place, some people have 
very clear visualizations about what there "original incidents" are while 
others have feelings or hear voices.  A very small percentage of my 
clients don't experience anything.  Just because they do not experience 
anything does not indicate that nothing is happening.  We, my client and 
myself, usually figure out what effect the "Hands on, Transfer of Power" 
has had on them a week or two later.

"HANDS ON, TRANSFER OF POWER" IN A NUTSHELL

This is how I would explain to you the "Hands on, Transfer of Power" 
procedure.  First I energize the areas that are related to the "original 
incidents."  After these areas have been energized and the "original 
incidents" are back on your screen or in view, I help my client encapsul- 
ate them so he can excrete these "original incidents" or so I can take 
them away, or vacuum them out.  Next I actually pluck it like a grape. 

The final step in the "Hands on, Transfer of Power" process is I comb for 
any remaining particles of the old experience.

THE DIAPHRAGM

Many people have immediate associations when the word "diaphragm" is 
mentioned.  Please put your preconceptions away for now.  The diaphragm 
is the place I start when performing the "Hands on, Transfer of Power."  

The diaphragm in this instance has nothing to do with diaphragmatic 
breathing.  I discovered this important technique almost by accident 
many years ago.  I believe other people will be able to perform part of 
this valuable technique by learning from this book. 

The diaphragm is a very important part in the "Hands on, Transfer of 
Power" process.  I believe that this process is revolutionary in that the 
simple procedure of doing the technique itself can be performed by many 
different people without any serious "internal training."  

However, the "combing" part of the technique, does require a high level 
of internal energy development.  I have seen some people that I have 
instructed, use it on their friends and family and actually be able to 
pull some of the same kind of results out that I am able to get. 

I am not saying that many people can do what I do.  I can't do it because 
of my tremendous amount of accumulated internal energy.  There might 
be others out there, but I have yet to meet any others. 

I have created the procedure "Hands On, Transfer of Power" in a very 
structured and technical way.  I have seen problems with being unable to 
move the diaphragm that are related to a divorce that happened in the 
family when the client was between the ages of 6 and 11.  Almost 100% of 
the people I've worked with that have had this "frozen diaphragm" problem 
to the point that they could not get it to move in the technique of 
"Inside Air," have come through a sever family trauma between these ages 
of 6 to 11. 

After freeing up their diaphragm with the "Hands On, Transfer of Power" 
technique, many of these people have visions of what the trauma of the  
"original incidents" were that created this "frozen diaphragm" problem. 

Many times while doing the "Hands On, Transfer of Power," their voices, 
faces, and body language changes to reflect the age of these "original 
incidents" whether they were experienced at the ages of 4 or 8 years old.  

When these changes happen, it is truly amazing.  The client can then 
realize what happened and can now "re-write" what originally happened.  
This is like changing a computer program and having it affect your life 
(program) everywhere else.  It is wiped clean, forever.  This is a very 
"freaky" but real phenomenon, when it happens.  And it does happen, on 
a very regular and predictable basis. 

"HANDS ON" IS NOT FUN, BUT IS VERY HELPFUL

O.K., the "Hands On, Transfer of Power" can be very painful, depending 
on the person receiving it.  Not that the physical technique of having it 
done to you is that painful, but what it brings up, the old experiences 
and the "original incidents," the rage, the anger, the guilt, and the 
abandonment. 

That's painful, but if you go through 10 or 15 minutes of mostly emotional 
pain, you're free of the "original incident" that "runs your life" and 
causes you pain everyday, on a daily basis anyway. 

"Hands On, Transfer of Power" is not role playing.  It relates to the 
actual "original incident" itself.  I cannot stress this enough.  You're 
not going back to "recreate the experience."  We're not talking about 
recreating an incident or a problem.  When I do "Hands on, Transfer of 
Power" you are actually there.  Many people go back 20, 30, even 40 years 
while we're doing it.  

Say you were 4 years old and your father was leaving your mother and 
you knew it, but you couldn't even talk yet, you have this picture of your 
father leaving.  

During a "Hands On, Transfer of Power," you are seeing him leave and then 
you get to talk and say you don't want him to go.  That incident is what 
started this long chain of recurring events in  (your life related to your 
"abandonment." 

Remember, we're not talking about recreating a problem, we're talking 
about "being there."  So, a question comes up:  Is this result reproduc- 
ible?  Is this scientific?  My answers in response to these questions are 
"depending upon what you mean by scientific."  Can I stand up to a double 
blind study?  Can what I do be explained in a human way, so that people 
with no previous understanding can understand it and is it reproducible?  

Yes.  Is it reproducible 100 percent of the time?  No, but very few things 
are.  I have standardized the areas that I find these specific emotional 
issues.  They are almost always the same general areas on all people I've  
worked with. 

But, someone who has "abandonment" has it in the same place as every- 
one else.  That doesn't mean that all people have "abandonment."  Some- 
one that has "anger," has "anger" in the same place as everyone else, but 
that doesn't mean that everyone has "anger" either.  "Guilt" on a man is in 
a different place than "guilt" on a woman.  "Guilt" on a woman is right over 
the ovaries.  

"Guilt" on a man is just by the inguinal ligament, which is just outside the 
testicles on the torso, not on the legs, not on the genitals but right on the 
torso next to the testicles.  That's where I've found "guilt" to be on men. 

Then you've got "Bitterness" which is mid-way between the naval and the 
Xyphoid process, right in the middle.  "Bitterness" I found more recently 
than the other emotions.  "Anger" and "depression" are in the same spot 
over the liver.  "Rage" is in the gallbladder, which is slightly back from 
the liver.  "Fear" is right over the kidneys, near the low back.  "Fear" is 
very rare to find.  

Like I said elsewhere in the book, this is a lot of "Five Element" related 
material yet it's quite different.  Many of these emotions work in pairs as 
in "Five Element Theory."

VARIOUS TISSUES EFFECTED

The practice of Chi Kung effects many different kinds of tissue in the 
body.  The first to be effected is the marrow in the bones.  The bone 
marrow is important in that this is where the blood is produced.  The 
second area of effect is the nervous system which controls all the various 
functions either directly or indirectly throughout the rest of the body.  In 
the fetus, the nervous system is the first to develop.  The third is the 
flesh and inner organs with their various responsibilities and functions.  

Finally the skin develops.  The final function of Chi Kung in relationship to 
the tissue is that it balances the entire body. 

USING THE HANDS

The hands are wonderful tools.  They can be vehicles for moving energy 
around.  They can be physical tools for moving bones, relieving tension, 
again moving energy, but in a much slower pace.  The hands can also be  
used for passing "Spirit" from one person to another. 

TOUCH WITHOUT TOUCHING

Development of using the hands has many levels.  These levels can go all 
the way to passing energy across a distance and manipulating or moving 
another person's body, out of that person's control, with the mind through 
the hands.  This as far as I know, is as far as it can go. 

When I move somebody using what is called "distance power" through 
space, it actually feels no different than when I was doing my regular 
practice.  However, the other person experiences the sensations, the 
movement, the pull, the feel, and the power. 

When this happened to me in 1987, I could not believe it myself.  So I 
tried to do it again and I had my video man there to record it.  We 
captured it the second time on video tape. 

The person I performed "distance power" on, and I have done it to a few, 
but none ever to this extent, was a black man who was a sailor with no 
previous experience with Chi Kung or Tai Chi except through taking my 
weekend workshop with me.  What I was able to do, was energize him or 
create a sensitivity from doing "Hands On, Transfer of Power" to him.  
His experience related to his father's death when he was only 4 years old. 

Immediately after that I was able to move him through the room, bounce 
him off the walls, make him do summersaults, while even through the 
doors and walls the energy passed.  Eventually within a 2 hour time span, I 
was able to move him without using my body, just by using my mind.  I 
have this on video and it is documented with five or six witnesses who 
were there through the whole time. 

This made me very, very excited.  The possibility of doing something that I  
had never seen before was a high point in my practice. 

Now, how does this apply to you, the reader?  I'm telling you this so that 
you can desolve your own barriers and go through life doing things that 
you didn't think were possible. 

What we are talking about here is the same energy that you develop, 
cultivate, circulate, generate and move around inside your Micro Cosmic 
Orbit, except that in my case, since I have been doing this for so long, and 
so intensively, I am able to move it outside of my body, and communicate  
to another person, without words. 

Yes, this is a very strange phenomenon, but what the hell, life is full of  
strange things. 

TAI CHI TRANSFER OF POWER

You see, "Transfer of Power" is a traditional Tai Chi phrase referring to 
releasing your internal energy, vibrating your skeleton, and what's called 
bouncing another person off a wall.  Of course, you are touching, but you  
are very gently touching the other person. 

The principle behind this is that you very gently touch somebody and you 
are able to "zap" yourself.  It's almost like a bolt of lightning.  Your spine 
and skeleton moves like a bolt of lightning and the other person has 
absolutely no sensitivity to the point that they fly as if they're 
weightless.  This has been done to me many times as a student and I have 
done this many more times as an instructor. 

The sensations felt while doing this to another person are no different 
than when you are doing your regular meditation practice.  And when I say 
"meditation practice" I mean your "Tai Chi Connective Meditations."  I don't  
mean Chi Kung. 

The difference between Tai Chi Connective Meditations and Chi Kung as 
you can tell by an article explaining Temple Style Tai Chi, which I wrote 
for Inside Kung Fu Magazine (April 1989), is included in this book.  "Tai 
Chi Connective Meditation" is done actually using Tai Chi forms and impos- 
ing "The Mind" on top of the actual physical movements, with the linkage 
to the ground and everything else.

Chi Kung does not have this physical structural relationship to everything 
else as does Tai Chi.  Chi Kung is physical and yes, it's in the body, but Chi 
Kung is not as grounded, rooted, and linked so that one cell relates to the  
next in a way like "a string of pearls" as it is in Tai Chi. 

Emotional stripping away of defenses and pretenses combined with a drive 
toward achieving an insight produces results.  Together this combination 
is very effective.  This approach does not allow a space for resistance.  

I don't pick up the energy from the other person even though I directly 
vacuum it off. 

STRING OF PEARLS?

A string of pearls is more symbolic of how Tai Chi works than Chi Kung.  
Chi Kung does not really carry the power in the same way because it's not 
the most important principle.  You do Chi Kung to develop the power of 
the mind and your WILL.  You do Tai Chi primarily (80%) to change the 
physical structure, the skeleton, strengthen the legs and the lower half of 
the body, and loosen the upper half of the body, etc. 

HOW I DEVELOPED MY ENERGY PROJECTION ABILITY

Many years ago when I attempted to use my hands for using energy 
outside of my own body I practiced with plants.  We're going back to 
1976.  I originally got the inspiration outside of what my mind had seen or 
what I thought was possible.  I was actually able to make the plants wave 
from 6-7 feet away.  These experiments were very exciting and inspiring.  

This was the beginning.  Now that was in 1976 and I hadn't been able to 
move my first person until 1986 and the video event that I mentioned 
previously happened at the end of 1987.  So it does take a long time to 
develop these kinds of powers.

RULES AND SUGGESTIONS

The larger the physical movement, the smaller the internal circulation.  
The smaller the physical movement, the larger the internal circulation.  
This means if you are physically moving, your mind cannot concentrate 
on the internal circulation because the body is the distraction. 

That's why somebody who practices Karate really cannot be internal, 
because they are solely external.  Yet somebody who is barely moving can 
have a large mind circulation movement.  This is at the heart of Tai Chi.  
Very small movements with sudden change.  Inaction to action equals 
Yin to Yang. 

"You want what you deserve... etc." and you deserve more than what 
you want can be used to break through your own comfort zone. 

Without this body, there can be no Tao.  Lao Tsu 

When doing "The Chi Circulations," the body does not matter!!!  "The 
Chi Circulations" are the only things that are important.  In Tai Chi 
Ball, the arms serve as a bellow to aid in sucking in through the knees. 

Use the principles obvious in Nature when practicing.  If it seems wrong, 
it probably is. 

Never condense on the exhale, condense on the inhale ONLY.

When exhaling, don't be concerned with the pathway of the exhale, let  
nature take it's course. 

If you think you can't do it, you're right.  What you crave the most, is 
what your body is expelling during detoxification.  Not eating Red Meat 
increases your internal sensitivity development. 

GARY'S HEALING STORY

A question that comes up very frequently is where did I develop the  
healing powers that I use to help people get better fast?

A.	A few important experiences led me to learning how to be a healer.  
I already had it in me but had no idea what to do with it.  I started out, 
believe it or not, by trying to help people in the street.  Many many years 
ago I found an epileptic lying on the street having a seizure--I helped him 
and within a year or so after that time I began martial art.   

My first experience with healing was with a fellow student who had been 
kicked and fell and hit his head on the concrete floor.  With no training 
whatsoever I did what came instinctively.  All the students and the 
teacher in that class became hysterical because this student was 
convulsing.  

His head and neck were the same size.  He stopped breathing; he was 
turning purple and I did the only thing that seemed to make sense--I 
pounded on his chest, which in reality was CPR and the following day 
the paramedic that removed him from the school came back and told my 
teacher that the person that worked on him the day before, which was 
me, saved his life.  That was the start of my healing career.  

Shortly after, I started Tai Chi.  Within a year or two of starting Tai 
Chi, I returned to my first martial art teacher because I knew that he 
knew an acupuncturist who was teaching students.  

Acupuncture was kept "secret" in those days and my acupuncture teacher 
made me promise I would use what he taught me "professionally."  After 
careful questioning of my character and intentions, my acupuncture 
teacher started studying Tai Chi with me and a year or so later, I started 
studying acupuncture with him.   

Then in 1979, a few years later, I learned one of the early Chiropractic 
techniques from a famous Chiropractic teacher named Dr. Lamar Rosquist 
from Salt Lake City, Utah.  He took me under his wing and taught me 
orthomolecular nutrition, muscle response testing (Kinesiology),  
Chiropractic manipulation and many other diversified techniques. 

When I met Dr. Rosquist, I was already practicing acupuncture and 
teaching Tai Chi for a living.  I was able to infuse my newly learned 
technical training into my patient treatment repertoire.   

Through Dr. Rosquist I was introduced to his partner of many years, Dr. 
Gary Whitley, the best Chiropractor I know.  Dr. Whitley is a "genius" and 
a "true healer."  He is as proficient in his art, Chiropractic, as I am in mine.  

Dr. Whitley has become one of my best friends.  Gary Whitley tries to 
teach me to be compassionate whenever he gets a chance--we're both 
winning.   

I retired as of November 1985 from the healing profession and no longer 
accept or treat patients or clients.  (Correction:  I now have an Illinois 
State Acupuncture License and have come out of my "Treatment Closet.")

I now help people in much larger ways than before.  I now specialize in 
my "Energy Work."  Teaching through PERSONAL POWER TRAINING enables me 
to help people in more important ways than if I were a Chiropractor.  
With every Chiropractor that I train in my art (Chi Kung), I can now 
indirectly help thousands of other people.  This is more important.

MEDICINE MAN MEETS MEDICINE MAN

In September on 1979, on an Indian reservation called the White Mountain 
Fort Apache Reservation, in a town called Cibecue, a senior Medicine Man 
of the Apache tribe named Nick Thompson, age 69, suffered a stroke 
leaving him paralyzed on the right side.  He could not walk, could not see  
out of his right eye, and had a "total sensory deficit" on the right side. 

About two weeks after he suffered the stroke, a friend of Nick's, a white 
man, went home to visit his family in southern Illinois.   He then spent 
some time in Chicago visiting a friend who was a student of mine at The 
Chicago Tai Chi Academy, where an ancient Chinese martial art for health 
and self defense is taught.  While here, he asked me, because of my 
experience in acupuncture and other healing arts, whether there was any 
hope for the old man. 

There were no promises given, but arrangements were made for me to 
travel to the reservation to spend possibly up to three weeks with Nick.   
I left right away and spent two and a half weeks living on the reservation, 
treating him daily. 

When I first got there, he was just coming down with what appeared to 
be pneumonia.  So the first thing I had to do was alleviate the threat of 
pneumonia, which would complicate things considerably if allowed to 
continue.  

After a few days, the respiratory problem cleared up and muscle testing 
and other diagnostic techniques were begun to determine the cause of 
the stroke.  According to acupuncture theory, there are about 18 possible 
categories of stroke.  Nick's symptoms fit a "classic" type.  From conver- 
sations with his family, it was clear that Nick had a liver and heart 
related stroke.  This was confirmed by pulse diagnosis (not the same as 
Western medicine), indicating excesses and deficiencies in each 
acupuncture meridian, 14 in all.  

First, I applied an "emergency treatment" to balance his body and open 
channels for treatment to occur more efficiently.  After that, I treated 
specifically for the type of stroke that Nick had.  After about five of six 
days, Nick began to show slight movement in his paralyzed leg.  Within 
the first week, we helped him walk, supporting him on our shoulders. 

The treatments were composed of daily massage, acupuncture treat- 
ments and therapy to increase his activity, circulation, and range of 
motion.  The second week, his sense of humor improved and his strength 
increased.  

Sight returned to his right eye, swelling at the side of his head disap-
peared, he was able to hear more clearly,  and he was able to speak 
understandable English.  When I first arrived, his own family could not 
understand him when he spoke Apache, let alone English.  Toward the 
end of the second week, he promised me that in two days he would be 
walking alone, without assistance.  A couple of days before this promise, 
his wife had to come and get me early in the morning to get Nick up off 
the floor.  

He had been practicing walking with his cane, fell down in the middle of 
the room, and was unable to get up.  His wife was unable to lift his 175  
pounds and I had to struggle to get him back to bed. 

Because of their poverty, people on the reservation have a diet consisting 
largely of white flour, white sugar and corn meal.  Most of them were 
extremely overweight and had many health problems.  I was able to 
influence some of Nick's younger relatives to improve their diet, but not  
Nick himself. 

Two days after his promise, Nick walked on his own with a cane.  I was 
scheduled to return home in two days after this.  The day before I left, I 
gave Nick the final treatment.  This consisted of touching with our hands 
important points on each of the acupuncture meridians, all at the same 
time, with the help of eight of Nick's relatives and friends, with the 
intention of "pooling and transferring" their energy into Nick's weak 
body so that his progress would continue after I had gone.  

At the time of the last treatment, he had become strong enough and 
independent enough to resist us.  After some convincing on my part, he 
accepted the treatment from myself and his relatives. 

Arrangements were made for me to fly back for three days of treatment in 
the middle of January 1980 to continue his recovery.  Shortly before I 
was to leave, Nick's son told me by telephone that it was not necessary 
to make the trip because Nick had regained use of his paralyzed right 
arm.  This was the goal of the cumulative acupuncture treatments. 

While I was there, I also treated other members of Nick's family.  One 
was a 16 year old girl weighing 260 pounds.  After two treatments with 
instructions on self treatment using her own hands, she lost about 30 
pounds by January.  Her father, who had been severely burned on his 
arm and hand from insecticides five years earlier, received two treatments 
and reported in January that the residual rash from these burns had  
completely been alleviated.

Many of the Indians were afraid that I was practicing magic or witchcraft 
and a lot of time was spent with them explaining what acupuncture was 
and how it can work.  They expected that an old Chinese doctor was 
coming to heal their medicine man.  Boy were they surprised to see me! 

It was a most rewarding experience to be accepted and trusted by an 
Apache family in such extreme conditions.  Nick told me that I was closer 
to him than most of his relatives, because I came such a long distance to  
try to help. 

At the time of the last communication with Nick's friends, Nick was riding 
his horse again as of early 1988.

INTRO QUESTIONS (This questioneer is on my Fax-On-Demand at (800) 782-4244, 
press 3, press 1, enter 148, press # and follow the directions.)

Please list 3 things you LOVE the most.
Please list 3 things you HATE the most.
Please list 3 things that would exist if you could push a button and 
make them happen. Many books use a format that is very difficult for 
people "with little experience to utilize.

THE 4 CATEGORIES OF A STUDENTS SERIOUSNESS

1)	A Passing Fancy / Somewhat interested 
2)	Serious Intenders / With No Follow Through 
3)	Accelerated Beginners 
4)	The Long Hauler / With Action 

LEARNING HOW TO LEARN

Most people are so unstructured in their lives that learning how to learn 
is extremely important.  This ties in with internal discipline.  The side 
effects of living an unstructured life are unproductive and dangerous, 
and lead to your life being one long rollercoaster ride.  Learning Chi 
Kung the way I teach it, will teach you how to understand the workings 
of your own mind.  

This understanding I call "learning how to learn."  It's very difficult 
to apply discipline to your profession, where it counts.  It's much easier 
and more practical to "learn how to learn," take your "new disciplines" 
and use them as your professional applications.  These applications are 
used not just in your profession but in your relationships, and in the 
way you think about and treat yourself.   

Examples: 

Many commodity traders require the ability to "think on their feet," to 
know where the market is going, to have some idea and to possess the 
discipline skills needed to perform what your mind tells you.  Applying 
internal discipline to trading is one of the most difficult and important 
things a trader has to do.  The question frequently comes up: "How do 
you apply Personal Power Training discipline skills to trading?"  

Unfortunately, there is no simple answer to this question because all 
traders are different.  Individual characteristics determine this.  
This is where we must determine what attributes need to be improved 
(self-confidence, self-discipline, or just plain market knowledge).  
I work best with traders that possess market knowledge that exceeds 
their ability to act.  The results most of my traders experience begin 
to show between 3-5 weeks.  

This is remarkably fast when you consider how long some of my clients 
have been trading, before they came to me.  I make sure they do what 
they say they want to do.  This goes for everybody, not just traders... 
just 3-5 weeks. 

YOU CAN MASTER ANYTHING

Remember, "Masters are made in the beginning, not at the end."  When I 
was a Tai Chi student, I observed other students practicing Tai Chi 
with the attitude that someday in the future they would be good at it.  
My attitude always was different.  I knew that even though my knowledge 
was limited at the time, what I did know was already very good.  

Persistence will pay off for you also.  You must truly love what you 
choose to do. 

Quality is more important than quantity.  If you apply, learn, and train 
with the attitude that what you're learning is good, then and only then, 
are you going to end up being "great."  If you think that some day you're 
going to go from being "shitty" to being great, forget it.  That is not 
how the world works.  The trouble that most people have with this, is 
that they have never been really good at anything, so they have no concept 
of what it is to truly excel at something.  This is being dominated by 
negative belief systems. 

Since I became so good at Tai Chi because of the way I was, that I learned 
how to learn, so that when you learn something other than your specific 
specialty, whether you're a lawyer, a commodity trader, or a Chiropractor, 
and you didn't learn in this same kind of organized fashion, you never  
developed the self-confidence that goes along with becoming an expert. 

There are a lot of "experts" that have kept their bad attitudes, their low 
levels of self-esteem and self-confidence.  However, if you learn the way 
I'm describing, your self-confidence levels elevate at the same rate as 
your proficiency levels.  That's what this work, Chi Kung, is about, 
"Learning how to Learn."

SOMETHING ABOUT WIMPY MEN

There exists a very strange phenomenon that I have witnessed many times 
over.  It shows up in men more than women.  I call it "men that are wimps 
but don't look wimpy."  What I am describing is your relationship with 
yourself.  It's as if you are always a little too nice and you are always 
willing to give away too much.  

You just never put any boundaries for yourself.  This shows up frequently 
in my sessions with my clients.  It's like the phrase, "nice guys finishes last" 
is actually true.  These men are joined in spirit, or lack of it.  When they 
talk to each other, they know exactly what each is feeling.  They share the 
same lack of heart.  These men appear and sound successful.  It's as if they 
have learned how to carry the facade of success, but deep down inside they 
know they are not truly successful, that something is missing. 

With this kind of man, I can work wonders and perform miracles. 

WIMPY MEN & AGGRESSIVE WOMEN VS.
WIMPY WOMEN & AGGRESSIVE MEN

Unfortunately, a problem I've noticed with women is that their level of 
commitment is much lower then most men, at least in the Chicago area.  

This is the opposite in Portland, Oregon where the women are very 
aggressive and many of the men are "wimps."  Here in Chicago, the women 
are very wimpy and the men are very aggressive.  Why?  I don't know, but 
I have noticed this for many years. 

As a matter of fact, it's as if the women in Chicago, if they want to work with 
me, just can't figure how to do it.  They usually don't begin immediately, or 
at least they rarely do.  No matter how strongly they feel about something, 
many women just don't have the follow-through.  They don't just do this 
with me.  They usually act this way with everything.  

This relates back to their childhood and the limitations with which they 
were raised.  If they have an undeserving attitude, it will usually show 
up in these situations. 

When I'm referring to an undeserving attitude, I mean they just don't 
have the WILL or drive to break out of their shells.  They actually act as 
if they need someone to give them permission.  Not only do I show you 
how to "crack" your shell, but I show you how to recognize and dissolve 
it forever. 

SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE FROM ALL WALKS OF LIFE

What about your really successful businessmen who have "made it?" 
There is no stereotype for that because when they come to work with 
me, regardless of how successful, happy or prosperous they appear on 
the outside, the side they show to me is the side they actually want healed. 

Whether it's feeling complete, self-contained, deserving, more masculine, 
or truly accepted by themselves, their wives or in their primary relation-
ship, these men always get what they need from me.  These men appear O.K. 
on the outside but all people have needs, and these men, though they 
appear more sophisticated or complex than the average person, do benefit 
greatly when they work with me.

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